Support NAT-PMP on Windows
- Link in libws32 and libiphlpapi, needed for libnatpmp (both in
./configure and when compiling tor-fw-helper-natpmp.c)
- Define STATICLIB under Windows, to allow tor-fw-helper-natpmp.c to link
- Don't include arpa/inet.h which isn't present in Mingw32 and doesn't
appear to be needed on either Windows or MacOS X